Tuesday, June 28, 2011

It's My Life

So, if you have been following my blog for a while then you know of everything that has happened with my boyfriend and I. And for those of you who haven't, go back and read the juicy news. Haha, okay not really juicy news, more like heartbreaking at the time. I thought for sure that life would not go on but it did and it still continues to move on. I have recently caught some shit for getting back together with Josh after everything that he did. I am well aware of what happened, how it happened, every little detail of what happened, I am the one who lived it, remember? So, if I make the decision to get back together with him why do you feel the need to criticize my decision. Last time I checked it was MY life, not yours. Yes, awful stuff happened, but it is between the two of us. If we can make things right and be happy, why do you feel the need to put your two sense in? Is everything all fine and dandy, no. But we are making things better. So unless I personally ask for your opinion, keep your negativity to yourself. I am all for good times and laughter, not negative nancy's everywhere.

Okay, end of rant! Have a Happy Tuesday Everyone!

8 comments:

Katie said...

I had the same thing happen to me when I got back with Jon...hell, I still get shit for it from some people. But sometimes people really can try hard and change things about themselves as long as they set their mind to it, and I believe both our men definitely realized all that and set their mind into changing ways and getting us true girls back :) Anyways, just do you, do what you feel is best and what makes YOU happy, not what satisfies other people's opinions. screw em :P

Melissa said...

amen! your happiness is what matters, not the other way around!

Jenn said...

It is your decision and your's alone to be with who you want to be with. You decided you want to be with him. If you are happy with your choice then that is all that matters. I am happy for you that things are going in the right direction :) (and by right direction I mean the direction that you want them to go :))

Kendall said...

do what makes you happy, and screw the people who give you crap for it! it's your life, you decide who you want to be with! people need to learn that the past is the past, and it can be kept there! hope your having a good day besides that!!

Erica said...

I think people are just looking out for you but it still does not give them the right to give an opinion. Keep doing what you're doing. As long as you are happy, then there's plenty of us supporting you :)

Bursting at the Seam said...

I am so sorry to hear you are or did go through a tough time recently.

That is why I haven't been reading any blogs or even keeping up on my blog. MY bf & I have recently been going through some "rough" times.

I hope you are doing ok.

Lots of Love,

Jodie

Megan said...

I have definitely been in your shoes before!! Before I was married, my ex and I would break up and get back together a lot and EVERYONE would give us heck about it. Looking back I can see that they were just trying to look out for us, but still, it's not their place to judge y'all! As long as y'all are happy, that's what matters!!

Allie said...

I love you for this post. I just tried to write something really similar on my blog. I liked your because it was a lot shorter, and more to the point. I dont know if you follow my blog these days but I went through something really similar. These last two weeks have been tough with all these people around me and their negative views about what I should be doing. Thanks for writing this. Congrats on the wedding and following your heart.